I'm wondering if most couples that have grown old together, have dealt with infidelity of either spouse and overcome that phase. I know its a very general question and that there is no definite answer, but I'd like to know what you think. Do you think there is such thing as a marriage where both partners are completely loyal to each other? My wondering is more focused in older couples (35, 40+ years of marriage) because if you've been married so long, the chances of getting divorced over infidelity are very minimal at that age, not impossible, just minimal.
So basically, could it be possible that you can only be together with someone that long only if you are willing to forgive a mistake like infidelity at least once in your lifetime?
Please, only polite feedback. If your goal is to tell me what a stupid thought or question this is, rather than giving a related answer, then I'd prefer you save your comment. Thank you!
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